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I have started talking and going on dates with this guy but I apparently am very intense and say things that shock him. I don't mean to be this way, I thought I was just being fun, open and friendly but apparently not.. What I perceive is vastly different to what other people perceive.
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He may possibly be insecure, either way its not your fault. To be honest with you, my initial instinctive gut reaction is that he is already making you feel at fault just for being yourself. That smacks of potential issues with manipulation and control, and gaslighting. Please don't stop being you. You sound awesome. There are PLENTY of fish in the sea, plenty more of which would welcome the real you without instantly trying to mould your behaviour and character just to fit their own personal comfort zone. Above all else, have fun, be happy, be wise and be yourself, always.
I think the best relationships will happen if you find partners like you, that way you’ll know and understand each other better. I married someone with ASD and it’s always been a struggle because our brains are wired differently. We all have different ways of seeing reality. Just my 2 cents!