When you ask someone what they want for a Christmas and they say something like “pay a bill” or “fill up my gas tank.” That’s because it’s something they would actually appreciate. When your response is “Well that’s no fun!” Then you buying them...More
When you ask someone what they want for a Christmas and they say something like “pay a bill” or “fill up my gas tank.” That’s because it’s something they would actually appreciate. When your response is “Well that’s no fun!” Then you buying them something isn’t even anything for them. It’s for you.
There’s nothing wrong with someone wanting to do better and move forward. If you care about them you should rather gift them with something that benefits their goals. You could buy them a $50 shirt. Or you could buy them a $50 gas station gift card that gets them to and from work for 2 weeks.
